Popular Social Media Apps Teens Are Using
Your child is probably a Facebook user, but don’t assume kids use this site the same way as you do. Most teens are not very active on this site; however, not maintain a Facebook profile would be like not being listed in the phone book back in the olden days. For best results on Facebook, do not engage your teen. Just lurk and collect information.
This photo editing and sharing app is crazy popular with teenage girls who love their selfies. Instagram allows users to edit and post photos taken on their phone, and the images are publically visible by default. Privacy settings are critical here because there are whole communities dedicated to displaying images of minors in sexually suggestive poses that are not technically pornographic. Not to be paranoid, but innocent vacation pictures could end up in a forum for pedophiles.
Twitter offers quick connection with anyone in the world. Users post updates in 140 characters or less. They can follow and be followed, as well as block other users from seeing what they post, but parents can also see what kids are posting without connecting, so long as they are not blocked. Because images can be posted, all of the same dangers of Instagram apply. Remember, too, that if your teen doesn’t want you to see their posts, they can simply start a new account and not tell you about it.
Pinterest organizes users around interests. Users create boards, which are like digital bulletin boards where favorite content is “pinned”. It’s incredibly popular because of its ease of use, ability to “save” content to look at later, and highly visual layout. Danger? Once a gathering place for home cooks and interior design aficionados, Pinterest has attracted its share of porn. However, your teen will probably not find it unless he/she is looking for it.
On Vine, users create and post 6 second videos, which are often also shared on Twitter and Facebook. Expect plenty of inappropriate content here including enough sex and drugs to earn the app a 17+ rating in the iTunes Store. With an unveiled confirmation of the age requirement, users are ready to post a video. Blocking who watches the video requires constant vigilance to make sure videos are not shown to strangers.
Reddit users submit links or texts, which are voted up or down by other users. Content is ranked to determine the post’s position on the front page. All the content is organized into categories known as “sub-reddits”. This site is more popular with boys who are using the app less as a social network than as a source of news and as a search engine. The forum-like interaction means your teen can “talk” to anyone.
Tumblr enables blogging for those afflicted with a short attention span. Of course, teens love it. Photo, audio, and video posts are often reshared from other sites with very little text. Tumblr’s big attraction is the ability to create collections of media that quickly and powerfully express the poster’s personality. Beware of the anorexia communities popular on Tumblr glorifying images of frighteningly thin young girls and women.
Kik is a smartphone messenger system where users send videos and images instead of text. Think emojis on steroids. Teens love meme and Kik allows them to search for and share images, memes and YouTube videos. Parents might be surprised to see some of the jokes their teens are sharing. There is no unique danger here.
Snapchat allows users to send messages, primarily photos and videos that are destroyed in seconds after they have been received. This service is marketed to teens with “capture the moment” messaging, and plays on its contrast to Facebook, which archives every post and pic for years. Snapchat’s fleeting image feature offers users the illusion of anonymity, but screenshots can be taken. The biggest risk here is sending inappropriate content thinking it can’t be used against them. If your kids have the judgment of politicians, they could get into trouble.
Pheed allows users to share all forms of digital content in 420 characters or less. Teens are the primary users of Pheed, which is one of the top apps in the iPhone store. Each user gets their own channel where they can post their content publicaly or privately. In addition to the social media aspects like Facebook, Pheed is a full service broadband medium. Users can share audio tracks and live broadcasts. Your teenager could conceivably live stream every waking moment on Pheed. I think we’ve all see the episode of “Law and Order”. Users can charge for access to the channel. A profit motive and under-developed judgement? What could possibly go wrong?
Wanelo-which stands for “Want, Need, Love”- is Instagram meets shopping and the dream app of many teenage girls. Users post images of links to products, which are then bought, saved, tagged, and shared by other users. When enough users tage a product, a store page is created. Users can follow stores and get updates when new products from those stores are posted. Wanelo is a wonderful tool to find out exactly what your 14 year old daughter wants for her birthday. Serious threats to your bank balances here.
4chan is a simple forum platform. Anyone can post images on bulletin boards, and anyone can comment. Similar to Reddit, the boards are dedicated to a variety of topics, but here users do not need to create an account to participate in the community. Anonymity can create extremely hostile environments online, so if your teenager is using 4chan, you’ll want to have conversations about how to deal with virtual aggression.
It can seem overwhelming to keep up with teen’s online lives, but take comfort in knowing that yours is probably not active in all of these networks. As sophisticated as the technology is, and as fast as it is changing, communicating with teens still comes down to real life conversations. And maybe a little snooping around on their phones!